BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE: LOVE & SEX

"Quite a few women told me, one way or another,
that they thought it was sex, not youth that's
wasted on the young."   
                       Janet Harn

EXAMINING THE THOUGHTS OF THOSE WE LOVE

"When we come to examine the thoughts, the actions of a woman whom we love, we are as completely at a loss as must have been, face to face with the phenomena of nature, the world's first natural philosophers, before their science had been elaborated and had cast a ray of light over the unknown."

Marcel Proust
**

D.H. LAWRENCE

D. H. Lawrence –
Censors often showed great abhorrence
Toward Lady Chatterly’s Lover,
But drooled over it from cover to cover.

**

BEING IN LOVE

”Being in love is also a kind of learning, because 
it
 is concentrated, not desultory, living.”

Clifton Fadiman. Entering Conversation. Cleveland:
World Publishing House, 1962.
**
CHRISTIANITY & SEX

“ Good little Christians were all taught that sex was 
a gift of God, but that was the last we heard of it. 
After that. The functional word was dirty.”

Wilfred Sheed
**


OF LOVE & WINGS


"Wings in traditional poetry are the merchanics by 
which Eros swoops upon the suspective lover to wrest 
control of his person and personality. Wings are an 
instrument of damage and a symbol of irresistible power. 
 When you fall in love, change sweeps through you on 
wings and you cannot help but lose your grip on that 
cherished entity, yourself."

Ann Carson in Eros the Bittersweet
**

GUYS & LADIES

"But chicks don't know that guys are like dogs. You 
know, you can take a dog, you beat the shit out of 
him -- pow! pow! -- but he'll keep coming back. Ladies 
are like cats. You yell at at a cat once -- Siamese 
cat - and phsst! They're gone."
                                 Lenny Bruce

**
WOMEN,PHYSICS, & CHEMISTRY

"Women are physics and chemistry. They are matter. 
It is their bodies that tell the fraility of men. 
Men have not their cellular, enzymatic wisdom. Man 
is albuminoid, proteinaceus, laked pearl; woman is 
yolky, ovoid, rich. Both are exuberant bloody growths.

Richard Selzer. Mortal Lessons: Notes on the Art 
of Surgery (New York: Simon & Schuster, 1976)


About Opsigamy

When using a rare term such as “opsigamy,” getting 
married later in life sounds out of the ordinary. 
But in fact, the practice is already common, especially
 among celebrities. George Clooney was known for years
 as Hollywood’s most eligible bachelor, but he settled 
down to marry at 53. Barbra Streisand married her current husband when she was 56, and Harrison Ford married when 
he was 67. George Takei was even older when he wed his
partner of 20 years at the age of 71, almost the moment 
same-sex marriage became legal in the United States."
"
Word Genius Website (March 31, 2023)
**

"The fact that sex is directly linked to money
only through prostitution represents the devious
way in which society deals with truths."
                             Kate Millett
**

LOVE POEM

The trout, according to Jeffries,
“Looks like a living arrow,
Formed to shoot through the water.”

This summer
I have watched grown men
Wade for hours

In hope of achieving one.
Then when the trout
With spots resembling

“Cachineal and gold dust,”
Had been “killed” then
Let go again,

An arrow thru water,
The unhooking of the barb,
This freeing

Into cold &
Swirling mysteries vast,
I thought of my own long marriage,

Inborn with tiny breathings.


Louis Phillips

BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE:BASEBALL

GROUCHO MARX SEES JOE DIMAGGIO

‘P.S. I saw Joe DiMaggio last night at Chasen’s and 
he wasn’t wearing his baseball suit. This struck me 
as rather foolish. Suppose a ballgame broke out in 
the middle of the night? By the time he got into his 
suit the game would be over.”

Groucho Marx in a letter to Ace Goodman (January 18 1951) 
The Groucho Letters: Letters from and to Groucho Marx
(New York: Simon and Schuster, 1967)
*
CASEY STENGEL

“Then there was old Casey Stengel . In the last series
 against the Yankees that old-timer won the only two 
ball games that the  Giants took with two timely homeruns
 and got traded for his pains.
   ‘Good thing I didn’t win any more ball games for him,’
Old Casey said gloomily when he heard the news. ‘If I 
had, he’d probably had me sent to jail.’”

The New Yorker (March 28, 1925)
**

BOB "Sugar" Cain & EDDIE GAEDEL*

Bob "Sugar" Cain--"...one of his best-known moments 
waspitching to Eddie Gaedel,  the midget that Bill 
Veeck sent up to pinch hit in 1951 Cain told the 
story hundreds of times and was appreciative of 
how this was part of baseball lore."

Burnham Holmes. One Shining Moment: Sports Heroes
For a Day (New York: HarperTorch, 2003)

*Standing at 3' 7" Edward Carl Gaedel , when he was 
sent up to bat in the second game of a St. Louis 
Brown/Cleveland Indians doubleheader, became the 
shortest player in major league history. He walked 
on 4 straight pitches.

Burnham Holmes, in One Shining Moment, notes that
when Gaedel died in 1961 Bob Cain was the only major 
leaguer to be present at the funeral.

**
https://www.metmuseum.org/exhibitions/listings/2021/
burdick-collection-baseball-cards
**
From 1907 to 1912, Boston's National League Team was
named The Boston Doves. The team was named after its
owner, George Dovey.
**
EDDIE GRANT & WORLD WAR I

     From 1907-1915 Eddie Grant was a journeyman 
infielder for three National League teams –-Cincinnati, Philadelphia, and the New York Giants.. Since he was
 a graduate of Harvard College, he was known to teammates
 and fans  as ‘Harvard Eddie” and as “I have It Eddie“
because, as Karen Markoe notes in her recent book
about Eddie Grant and World War I, “When camped under
 a pop-up, he would not call out, ‘I’ve got it,’ as most ballplayers of his era would. To his educated ear, 
‘I have it,’ sounded right.”
     Better known for his fielding than for his hitting
 (his l lifetime batting average was .249 ) Eddie retired
 from the game in 1915 to join a Boston law firm.
      On April 6, 1917 the United States declared war against Germany. Grant was too old to be drafted, but he enlisted 
and was eventually promoted to Captain in the 77th Division.
 On October 5, 1918 in an attempt to rescue the men of the
 so-called Lost Battalion,  Grant was killed on the Argonne battlefield.

see EDDIE GRANT: BASEBALL AND THE GREAT WAR by Karen Markoe 
(NY: Fort Schuyler Press, 2022)

**


THE OLDEST MAJOR LEAGUE PLAYER

 The oldest player to appear regularly in the major 
leagues was Jack Quinn, who ended his last season 
at age 50, having made 14 appearances as a relief 
pitcher in his final season.
**

**
NY YANKEE GREAT LOU GEHRIG AS MOVIE ACTOR

"Rawhide is a 1938 American Western film starring 
Lou Gehrig and made by Twentieth Century-Fox Film 
Corporation. The movie was directed by Ray Taylor 
and produced by Sol Lesser from a screenplay by 
Jack Natteford and Daniel Jarrett. The cinematography 
was by Allen Q. Thompson. This is the only Hollywood 
movie in which baseball great Lou Gehrig made a screen appearance, playing himself as a vacationing ballplayer 
visiting his sister Peggy (played by Evalyn Knapp) on 
a ranch in the fictional town of Rawhide, Montana.
 The film remains available on DVD and VHS formats."

Wikipedia

The music for 2 of Rawhide's songs was written by 
Albert von Tilzer. He is better known for being the 
composer of baseball's most famous song, "Take Me
Out to the Ballgame".

ImdB Trivia
*


THOUGHTS UNDER A BOWER

Hank Bauer
Sd to Frederic Baur,
"One of us invented a container for Pringles,
The other hit 974 singles."Y
**
EARLY WYNN

Early Wynn
Wd win & win & win.
With Robert Feller -- what a twosome!
Every once in awhile they wd lose some.
**

OF WITCHES BREW AND BASEBALL

Bubble bubble toil & trouble --
That's what it was like
To face Carl Hubbell.

BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE: AMERICANA

HENRY FORD REVEALS HIS LACK OF KNOWLEDGE
ABOUT AMERICAN HISTORY

“I don’t like to read books. They muss up my mind.”
                                           Henry Ford
**
Lawyer: Do you know anything about the American
                Revolution?
Henry Ford: I understand there was one in 1812.
Lawyer:  Any other time?
Henry Ford: I don’t know of such thing.
Lawyer: Did you ever hear of Benedict Arnold?
Henry Ford: I have heard his name.
Lawyer:  Who was he?
Henry Ford: I have forgotten just who he is. He is
                       a writer, I think.

from a cross-examination in an actual court case

**
HOW ERIC CLAPTON GOT TURNED ONTO MUSIC

“ Well, the first thing that rang in my head was 
black music – all black records that were R&B or 
blues oriented. I remember hearing Sonny Terry and 
Browne McGhee, Big Bill Broonzy, Chuck Berry and 
Bo Diddley, and not really knowing anything about 
the geography or culture of the music. But for some 
reason it did something to me – it resonated. Then 
I found out later that they were black; They were 
from the deep South and they were American black men.
 That started my education.”

GUITAR LEGENDS: CELEBRATING 30 YEARS  OF
GUITAR WORLD. Special Collectors Edition,
 Celebrating Thirty Years of Guitar World (2010)
*
I DID NOT TAKE AARON BURR SERIOUSLY

When Aaron Burr
Asked to borr
ow one of my dueling
Pistols, I thought he was fooling.

**
THE GUNFIGHT AT THE O.K. CORRAL LASTED ONLY 30 SECONDS

" Brothers Wyatt, Virgil, and Morgan Earp, along 
with their friend Doc Holliday, served as the law 
enforcement of the city of Tombstone, Arizona. 
Together, they sought to disarm a gang of outlaw 
ranchers called the Cowboys. After an intense 
30-second battle that saw 30 gunshots, three Cowboys
 had died while the Earps survived with only minor 
injuries. The shootout, which took place outside 
a horse corral, became one of the most famous 
legends of the Wild West."

Source: O.K. Corral
HISTORYQUIZ (MARCH 19, 2023)
**
ON THE ELECTION OF THOMAS JEFFERSON in 1800

“Murder, robbery, rape, adultery and incest will
 be openly taught and practiced, the air will be 
rent with the cries of distress, the soil soaked 
with blood, and the nation black with cfrimes. 
Where is the heart that can contemplate such as 
scene with horror?”

The New England Courant
Nancy McPhee. The Book of Insults (New York:
Barnes and Noble, 1978)

**
ENTERPRISING PASTOR

“In Milwaukee, the enterprising Rev. John Lewis 
failed to get the new church he wanted, instead 
he got one to five year in prison for burning down 
the old one.”

Miscellany. TIME (July 21, 1947)
**

REMAINS OF THE 1964 WORLD'S FAIR

“Man’s Achievement on a Shrinking Globe in an Expanding Universe” was the theme of the 1964 World’s Fair and 
the New York State Pavilion embodied that theme in
 the modern design of its buildings. One of those 
buildings that still stands today is The Tent of 
Tomorrow, designed by noted architect Philip Johnson. 
The circular structure once boasted the world’s 
largest cable suspension roof (50,000 square feet)
 which supported a dazzling display of multi-colored 
fiberglass tiles. On the floor, there was a massive 
567-panel terrazzo road map of the state of New York."


from UNTAPPED NEW YORK website (March 18, 2022)

**

THE BATTLE OF NEW ORLEANS
“The Battle of New Orleans” appears on the 1959 
album "The Spectacular Johnny Horton.” The tune 
is written as if sung by a soldier participating 
in the 1815 Battle of New Orleans. The song features
 army chants of “hut-two” and “three-four” during 
the verses, and lyrics including “fired our guns 
and the British kept-a-comin’” during the chorus."
Source: Genius.com
**
ON THE NAMING OF AMERICA AFTER AMERIGO VESPUCCI

Amerigo Vespucci "had nothing to do with the decision  
to name the new continent after him. The mapmakers 
placed his name along the coast of South America 
that he had explored in 1499-1500. The name's use 
was later extended to both the northern and southern
 continents. The clearest proof that Vespucci had 
no intention of depriving Columbus of any credit 
is that they were friends, as shown in a letter
 in which Columbus describes Vespucci as a 'fine man.'"

Consuelo Varela.  "Exploring Truth and Lies : Amerigo
Vespucci" in National Geographic History (volume 3, no.2)

**

AMERICA! AMERICA!

In 2023 Ninety-two books were pulled from school 
shelves in Florida’s Martin County School District 20. 

**
1948 PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION

Thomas Dewey
To Truman said"Phooey!"
To Dewey Truman said:
ª@@!W&*%#∂∂¥åªºƒ!@@√√((!"

LJP

BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE: THE JOYS OF READING

WHAT DID VIRGINIA WOOLF THINK? or READING THE DIARIES
 OF VIRGINIA WOOLF

"...I haven't often read writers' diaries, but I
like the entries. I like knowing what Woolf was 
thinking about her books as she wrote them and their
reception after they came out, and what she thinks of
the other writers of her time. It is satisfying to be
in her mind: "What is the right attitudev toward
criticism? What I ought I to feel and say when Miss B.
devotes an article in Scrutiny to attacking me? She is
young, Cambridge, ardent. And she says I'm a very bad
writer.'"

Amina Cain. A Horse at Night: On Writing (St. Louis,
MO, 2022)
**


FROM AN INTERVIEW WITH A FAMOUS WRITER

“’What do you read now?’ the hungry interviewer asked 
the famous writer, a woman of commercial success in 
the theater whose autobiography has defined a 
character of considerable literary sophistication. 
And the famous author answered: ‘I don’t read novels 
any more. I’m sorry to say. A writer should read novels. 
When I do, I go back to the  ones I’ve read before. 
Dickens, Balzac…I find now when I go to get a book 
off the shelf. I pick something I read before, as 
if I didn’t dare try anything new.’”

Richard Howard. “A Note on Roland Barthes’s S/Z” in
Paper Trail: selected prose, 1965-2003 (New York. Farrar, 
Straus and Giroux, 2004)
**
ON VOICES, PLACES

"...how are voices like places? They move through us
as we move through them. The voices of great writers
guide us without telling us where we are going --
except, of course, to the most obvious destinatiion 
of all. We are guided by ambiguity -- that's the way
literature works. And the way travel works as well.
We understand it only when we stop moving, sit still
and begin to listen back."

David Mason. Voices, Places (Philadelphia: Paul
Dry Books, 2018)
**
A BOOK MEL BROOKS COULD EASILY PUT DOWN

In the New York Times Book Review “By the Book” 
(November 13, 2022) film director Mel Brooks was asked
“Disappointing, overrated, just not good: What book 
did you feel as if you were supposed to like, and didn’t? 
Do you remember the last book you put down without 
finishing?”

Mel Brooks replied: “If truth be told, for some reason 
I never did get around to finishing ‘Mein Kampf.’”

**
ROBERT SOUTHEY & WILLIAM WORDSWORTH

“The difference between the two men is well illustrated 
by their several attitudes to books: Southey loved them
 as objects, whereas Wordsworth had no feeling whatever
 for them, apart from their contents. De Quincy reports 
 his own and Southey’s horror at the sight of Wordsworth
 cutting the leaves of De Quincey’s own copy of Burke 
with a knife that had just been used to butter bread. “

Edward Sackville West. A Flame in Sunlight: The Life &
Work of Thomas De Quincey (London: The Bodley Head,
1974)

ROBERT SOUTHEY AND HIS WIFE

“…Southey ‘lived in his library, which Coleridge 
used to call his wife’…


Edward Sackville West. A Flame in Sunlight: The Life &
Work of Thomas De Quincey (London: The Bodley Head,
1974)


**

TREVOR NOAH AS A YOUNG BOY GROWING UP UNDER 
APARTHEID IN SOUTH AFRICA

“My books  were my prized possessions. I had a 
bookshelf where I put them, and I was so proud 
of it, I loved my books and kept them in pristine 
condition.  I read them over and over, but I did 
not bend the pages or the spines. I treasured 
every single one. As I grew older I started buying
 my own books. I loved fantasy,loved to 
get lost in worlds that didn’t exist.”

Trevor Noah. Born a Crime. New York: One World, 2016)
**

“He understands at a glance what he reads, reads only 
what he can understand at a glance.”

Bergan Evans. The Spoor of Spooks and other nonsense
(NY: Alfred A. Knopf, 1954).
** 

ON CHOOSING THE CORRECT PEN NAME

The creator of Tarzan, Edgar Rice Burroughs sold
 his first story  -- Under the Moon of Mars (1912)
 –under the name of Normal Bean. He chose the
 pseudonym Norman because he thought of himself 
at the time “the average mind in search of average 
readers.”

**
IT IS NOT PEOPLE WHO DIE BUT WORLDS
ON READING

“There are no uninteresting people in the world,
says Yevtushenko in one of his best lyrics; everyone
carries around with him his first snow and his first
kiss it is not people who die but worlds.”
Edward Thomas. London Magazine (November 1967)

I read those words over & over.
They deliver me,
If only for awhile, from myself,

My thoughts, my feelings,
The shifting ground of my being.
I become someone else

&,  like some licensed physician,
Hold out my hand
To take the fragile pulse of the world.

LJP


BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE: ANIMALS

For Gregory Abby who would keep all animals from harm
**'

THE SINGULAR BEAUTY OF A PURE WHITE GOOSE

“No night time sight can compare with the singular beauty 
of a pure white goose, or several, their motionless, 
luminous contours on dark moonstruck grass that absorbs 
the light, the contrast of each bird’s brilliance, glowing 
as if lit from within,”

Paul Theroux. “Diary”. London Review of Books (20 June 2019)

**
PENGUINS AS PARENTS

“Penguins are super parents. When the female provides 
dinner she doesn’t just reach for the pesto but launches
 herself into the treacherous, icy depths, returning with a stomach full of half-digested fish to be spewed down the gullet of her needy chick. His Fluffy Eminence, who is then installed in creche so protective it makes the average nursery look like the workhouse in Oliver Twist. Yet, even for penguins, rejection comes after the winter huddling and the pre-ledge commutes, deep dives and the exhausting feeds, the mother will waddle off across the tundra, never to be seen by her children again. Abandonment, we understand, is not the devastating catastrophe that wrecks the child’s system of trust, but the crowning achievement of good parenting.”
Andrew O’Hagan. “Off His Royal Tits” in London Review 
of Books (2 February 2023)
**

ON THE IMPORTANCE OF HORSESHOE CRABS

“Endotoxins are a worry to medicine. They exist 
in the cell walls of certain bacteria and can be 
released when the bacteria break down or die. These 
toxins can send a patient into a tailspin of fever,
 chills, septic shock and death.
  “To keep patients safe, pharmaceutical companies 
run roughly 70 million tests a year on injectable 
medicines and implants for the presence of those toxins 
with a substance called limulus amebocyte lysate. It is 
an extract of cells from horseshoe crab blood and can 
identify even infinitesimal amounts  of the toxin by 
reacting with it, No other natural substance is known
 to work so well.

Deborah Cramer. ”When the Horseshoe Crabs Are Gone,
We’ll Be in Trouble” in The New York Times. 
February 18,2023.
**
THE WORLD'S OLDEST LLAMA

A 27-Year-Old Llama Sets World Record for Oldest of His Species — And He Has the Best Name
The Dalai Lama is the highest spiritual leader and 
head monk of Tibet, considered a living Buddha. Dalai 
Llama, on the other hand, is the oldest living llama 
in the world. And he just turned 27.

From NICE NEWS (March 2, 2023)

**
THE ANAL CATAPULT OF GLASSY-WINGED
SHARP SHOOTERS

https://arstechnica.com/science/2023/02/watch-these-glassy-winged-sharpshooters-fling-pee-bubbles-with-anal-catapult/

**
SPIDERS & AUTOMOBILES IN THE COLD OF WINTER

"A spider can hide out in a barn. Some spiders 
do survive outside in the cold, relying on the glycol 
in their blood to keep their cells from freezing, 
similar to the chemicals used to keep your car 
running in the winter."

Josephine Sedgwick. "Nature is Alive in Winter" in
The New York Times (March 7, 2023)

**
ON IGUANAS ON THE GALAPAGOS ISLAND

"A basalt coastline crowded with large, lounging iguanas 
looks nothing short of Jurassic. When I first saw these 
striking creatures in the Galapagos, I was impressed 
most by their placidness. Unfazed by humans, they spend 
long, sunny days warming in the equatorial sun like 
scaly house cats, sometimes in heaps, between foraging
 missions at sea to feed on marine algae.
   "Charles Darwin was famously unimpressed with this rare seafaring lizard. "It is a hideous-looking creature,"he
 wrote in The Voyage of the Beagle, "stupid and sluggish 
in its movements."

Katherine Harmon Courage."Heroes of the Wild" in
Smithsonian  (March 2023)
**

MINK RHYMES WITH STINK

"Mink is the name of a water-dwelling weasel. Minks 
are vicious, bloodthirsty, and evil smelling, and 
when annoyed, they spray a foul-smelling fluid from 
glanda beneath their tail. The mink's old sciehtific 
name, Putorius means 'stinker.' Yet a coat made  from 
the fur of this thoroughly unpleasant animal has long 
been a synbol of success. And, thanks to its durable, 
lustrous fur the mink is one most valuable animals in 
the world."

Peter Limberg. What's in the Names of Wild Animals
(New York: Coward, McCann & Geoghegan, 1977)
**

ELEPHANTS


It is mealy, this world with so little substance.
Frequently our dreams are not mammoth enough.
No more poetry! I shall say it bluntly:
I do not wish to live in a world without elephants.

Wide-eyed I listen for the click of tusks,
Herds of elephants rumbling into the bush.
By way of greeting, elephants place their trunks
Into one another's mouths. How shall my sons grow
Without sensing the imponderable bulk of the world?

How necessary it is, even in so paltry a landscape,
Ivory-stained, & large enough only for killing,
To be reminded of lives larger than ourselves.
More than 50,000 muscles in the trunk alone, &
Then it happens: a large orange moon trumpets
Over woodland; we sense a planet going musth.

LJP

--
http://louis-phillips.com

"

BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE: FILMS #16

WHAT NORA EPHRON LEARNED ABOUT FILM
SCRIPT WRITING FROM TOM HANKS

“…I learned from  Tom was a thing that’s really 
important, which is that scene after scene, you
 have to give the main actor something to play, 
he can never be passive in the scene, et. cetera, 
 even (or especially) when he’s sharing it with
 a very cute little boy.”

Nora Ephron . interviewed by Patrick McGilligan 
in Backstory 5: Interviews with Screenwriters 
of the 1990s
(June 2007)

**

ON THE COWBOY STAR WHOSE HORSE WAS NAMED TARZAN

Ken Maynard.  “Maynard, born Kenneth Olin Maynard in
1895, began working for circuses and carnivals at 16. 
As a young man he became a rodeo performer and a 
trick rider for Buffalo Bill’s Wild West Show. By 
1923 Maynard was appearing in movies  and became a 
cowboy star. His horse  Tarzan appeared in literally
 dozens of movies, including The Demon Rider (1925),
 Overland Stage (1927) , Come on, Tarzan (1932) and
 Lightning Strikes West (1941)..;”

David Lemmo. Tarzan: Jungle King of Popular Culture  
(Jefferson,North Carolina : McFarland & Company,2017)

**

ON WHAT VIEWERS REMEMBER ABOUT  THE BIG
PARADE

“In my own film The Big Parade for years after its 
first showing and until this day, people speak of 
the moment the doughboy, played by John Gilbert, 
removes a heavy shoe from a pack on his back and 
throws it to his French sweetheart as a desperate 
token of his affection. Equal to this, they speak 
of the close-up in which the same girl in a impulsive 
move to slow the truck’s progress holds to a chain 
at the rear of the truck that is carrying her lover 
to war. The film is a mighty panorama of World War I
 decidedly in the spectacle category and yet the 
memory is of two close-ups. A hundred airplanes 
in a sweep over a battlefield is never mentioned.”

King Vidor.  King Vidor on Film-Making (New York:
David McKay Co., 1972)
**
FILMS YOU MAKE YOURSELF

“Very  few films are dreams, configuring and reconfiguring themselves in your mind on waking. These films, I think, 
you make yourself, afterwards, somewhere in the shadows 
in the back of your head. The Bride of Frankenstein is 
one of those dream films. It exists in the culture as a
 unique thing, magical and odd, a lurching story sequence
 as ungainly and as beautiful as the monster itself, that culminates in a couple of  minutes of film that have 
seared themselves onto the undermind of the world.”


Neil Gaiman. The View From the Cheap Seats (New York:
William Morrow, 2014)

**

THE QUOTATION EXPERT MARDY GROTHE ON THE TITLE
OF THE FILM - THE YEAR OF LIVING DANGEROUSLY

"Although the movie made “the year of living dangerously” 
a widely-known catchphrase, it’s not the origin.
Nor is the 1978 novel The Year of Living Dangerously by Christopher J. Koch, which the film version is based on.
The setting for the book and movie is Jakarta, Indonesia 
during the chaotic period that led to the overthrow of 
the country’s long-time dictator, President Sukarno.
Author Koch took his title from a speech Sukarno made 
in 1964.
 
"The President had a custom of giving a special name to 
each year in his annual “National Day” speech. In the 
National Day speech he gave on August 17, 1964, Sukarno
 named the upcoming year “the year of living dangerously.”
This reflected the challenges he knew he faced from his political enemies, who included both hard-line Communists
and radical Muslims. The multilingual leader’s name for 
the year was based partly on an old Italian phrase he was familiar with — “vivere pericoloso” (“living dangerously”).
Although Sukarno gave the speech in the Indonesian language, he inserted those Italian words after the Indonesian word for year, tahun, to create the name. The year ahead, he said, would be the “Tahun vivere pericoloso.”

http://www.thisdayinquotes.com/2022/01/dr-mardy-grothes-new.html

**

JOAN CRAWFORD & THE LETTER T

“After I divorced Franchot (Tone) I asked my maid 
to pick out all the T’s in my linens – acres of 
towels, meadows of bed linens. I don’t know how 
many hundreds of T’s the poor girl had carefully 
unpicked when, one evening, listening to the radio, 
she heard the announcer break in with a news bulletin:
 Joan Crawford has just married Phillip Terry! 
   The maid threw down the pillowcase she was working
 on and screamed, “I quit.”

Joan Crawford. My Way of Life . 1971

**

NOTES FOR A HISTORY OF FILMS & POLITICS

“I saw Reds in Oklahoma where I once witnessed people walking out on Fiddler on the Roof because it was about ‘A Bunch of Commies.’ I saw no one walk out on Reds.”

Jim Beaver in Films in Review (February 1982)

**

CARTOON CHARACTERS ARE NOT THE SAME
AS REAL PEOPLE, SO THEY SHOULD NOT
GET ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH ONE
ANOTHER

Elmer Fudd
Fell madly in love with Ashley Judd:
"Oh kiss me, Ashley. You're so hot!"
"No," she said. "I am real and you are not."

LJP






BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE:PEOPLE

SAINT FRANCIS

“Did St. Francis really preach to the birds? 
Whatever for? If he really liked birds he would 
have done better to preach to the cats.”
                        Rebecca West

**
EMILY DICKINSON & HER LOVE FOR BIRDS

“I hope you love birds, too. It is economical . 
It saves going to heaven.”

Emily Dickinson, in a letter to Mabel Loomis Todd
**
SOR JUANA INES DE LA CRUZ

“There weren't many pathways to success for girls born 
to unwed parents in 17th-century Mexico, but Sor Juana 
Inés de la Cruz managed to transcend her origins with 
a dazzling mind and a deft pen. Largely self-taught, 
she wrote her first dramatic poem at age eight, studied
 the Greek classics, and was instructing children in 
Latin by age 13. A few years later, she joined the 
court of the Viceroy Marquis de Mancera, where she 
famously wowed a panel of professors with her expertise
 in numerous subjects. Sor Juana then entered a convent,
 where she enjoyed the freedom to pen numerous plays, 
poems, and carols, as well as the proto-feminist manifesto Respuesta a sor Filotea de la Cruz. A clash with authority figures forced her to abandon her creative pursuits shortly before her death in 1695, but she endures as one of the most important literary figures of the New Spanish Baroque.”

From INTERESTING FACTS website. 
**

AT A PARTY I INTRODUCE THE R &B SINGER SZA
TO THE ACTRESSES ZSA ZSA & ZASU PITTS

Sza,
Zsa Zsa,
Zsa, Zsa,'
Sza.
Zasu, Sza.
Sza, Zasu,
Zasu, Sza,
Zsa Zsa,

LJP

**

JOHN DONNE'S BROTHER 

"A year after joining his brother at the Inns of
Court, Henry Donne was caught harbouring a priest
in his living chambers. He was arrested, jailed, 
interrogated and no doubt threatened with torture.
He swiftly broke. The man he had been hiding, William
Harrington, might have have held out against his
questioners, but Henry's testimony did for him; in
February 1594, he was tried, convicted of treason,
and hung, drawn and quartered. Henry himself was
already long gone. Transferred to a filthy cell in
the jail at Newgate during an outbreak of bubonic
plague, he died within days, at the age of nineteen,
a lonely and unspectacular and altogether inglorious 
end.

Catherine Nicholson, reviewing Super-infinite: The
Transformations of John Donne. London Review of Books
(19 January 2023) 

**
GAEL GREENE
         
I have dedicated myself to the wanton indulgences 
of my senses. And I shall consider it fitting and 
divine if on my deathbed my last words echo those
 of Pierette, the sister of Brillat-Savarin , who 
died at table shortly before her one-hundredth 
birthday “Bring on the dessert. I think I’m about 
to die.”

Gael Greene, quoted in her New York Times obituary
(November 2, 2022)

**

ON THE DEATH OF THE AUTHOR OF BREAKFAST
AT TIFFANYS

Capote
Kaput.

LJP
**



HENRY JAMES’S FOREHEAD

“…his forehead was more like a dome, it was a whole street.”
                                      Max Beerbohm

David Cecil. Max (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company., 1964)
**
HEDY LAMARR

“Thousands of people can speak dialogue competently, 
but it’s amazing how few can do a really good sex scene. 
Hedy Lamarr was the Olivier of Orgasm.”

             Mark Steyn

ON A NOTED WRITER OF POPULAR SONGS

Edward, Gus –
(I know so I do not have to guess)
Did not write ”I Can’t Tell You Why I Love You But I Do”.
(Gosh! The great stuff I can sneak into a Clerihew).

ADLAI STEVENSON

Stevenson, Adlai –
Democrats wanted very badly
For him to be President of the U.S.
It didn’t quite work out, I guess.

SIGMUND FREUD

Sigmund Freud—
Did he have sang-froid?
Perhaps his super-ego, ego, id
Allowed him to keep his feelings hid?


LJP


BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE: WORDS, WORDS, WORDS

OF LANGUAGE AND THE BIRDS

"Our language reflects our disrespect. Something
worthlessor unappealing is 'for the birds.' An ineffectual politicianis a 'lame duck.' To 'lay an egg'is to flub a performance. To be 'henpecked!' is to be harassed with persistent nagging.'Eating crow'is eat humble pie. The expression 'bird brain,' for a stupid, foolish, or scatterbrained person, entered theEnglish language in
the early 1920's because people thought of birds as
mere flying, pecking automatons, with brains so
small they had no capacity for thought at all.
"That view is a gone goose. In the past two decades
or so,from fields and laboratories around the world have
flowed examples of mental feats comparable to those
found in primates."

Jennifer Ackerman. The Genius of Birds (New York:
Penguin Books, 2017)
**
NOT EXACTLY HUMPHREY BOGART

“ boggart is, depending on local or regional tradition,
a malevolent genius loci inhabiting fields, marshes or
other topographical features. The household boggart
causes objects to disappear, milk to sour, and dogs
to go lame. They can possess small animals, fields,
churches, or houses so they can play tricks on the
civilians with their chilling laugh.”

Wikipedia –“English Folklore”
**

FROM TOKYO

Sign in a self-service elevator in a Tokyo apartment
house: “Keep your hands away from unnecessary buttons
for you.”

**
TWO BEAUTIFUL WORDS

“The two most beautiful words in the English
language are: ‘Check enclosed’.

**

15 WORDS SELECTED BY DR. WILFRED FUNK
AS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL IN THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE

1. Amaryllis 7. Jonquil 13.Oriole
2. Anemone 8. Lullaby 14.Rosemary
3. Asphodel 9. Marigold 15. Tendril
4. Bobolink 10. Melody
5. Chalice 11. Mist
6. Chimes 12. Myrrah

**

ABOUT EARLY MOVING PICTURE MACHINES
SUCH AS THE ZOETROPE & NOMINAL EMBROIDERY

“By the end of the nineteenth century, hundreds of
variation of those toys abounded, each with its own
name, either simple or ornate –Praxinoscope, Choreutoscope, Wheel of Life. All of those stroboscopic toys shared,
in addition to the common use of persistence of vision,
several traits that were to continue as trends in later
movie history. Most striking was the inventors’ passion
for fancy Greek and Latin names to dignify their dabblings: Thaumatrope, Phensakistiscope, Viviscope, Zootrope. This
passion for nominal embroidery would later dominate the
first era of motion pictures – Kinetoscope, Bioscope,
Vitascope, Cinematographe –and beyond it – Vitaphone, Technicolor, Cinemascope….”

Gerald Mast. A Short History of the Movies (New York:
Penguin Books, 1971)
**

BLIND DATE WITH AN EDITOR
OF WEBSTER’S DICTIONARY


Oh my beating heart. O good gracious!
Her kisses on my lips were butyraceous.

LJP
**

MOVIES & VOCABULARY BUILDING

Wet-assed hour –(n) Time of trouble or fear
“Come the wet-ass hour and I’m everybody’s daddy.”

Spoken by Al Pacino’s character in SEA OF LOVE
**
WORD COUNT TO TEN

STONE
CEMENT WORKS
WREATH REELS
OFF OUR ROOF
FIFI VENERATES BLOGS
MESSI XEROXES SOCCERS SCORES
FREIGHT
TONI NEEDS THIS LIST
FORGOTTEN

**
THE SAXOPHONIST PAUL DESMOND PRAISES
DAVE BRUBECK


“Desmond, after hearing Brubeck who tended to play ‘way out’ : ‘Man, like wigsville ! You really grooved me with those nutty changes.”

“White Man Speak With Forked Tongue” in JAZZ by
Whitney Balliett in The New Yorker (Sept. 16, 1992)

**
ADJECTIVES USED BY THE NOVELIST SHIRLEY HAZZARD

An "administrative smile'
An "immoderate sunset"
An "infirm chair" in a room of "unconvinced Westernism"
Old buildings whose "violated and ghostly elegance" persists

from On Shirley Hazzard by Michelle deKretser (New York:
Catapult, 2019


FILM DIRECTOR ADJECTIVES


“Stephen (Spielberg) and David (Lynch) have a profound
kinship as fellow radicals in the world of cinema. I
believe
In addition to Hitchcockian, the next two cinema
names that are now in our dictionaries are Lynchian and Spielbergian.”

Laura Lynney. Time Magazine (June 21,2022)

**


A SINGLE LETTER CAN MAKE
ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD



Sweetshop sweatshop

A single letter
Divides them,
That & thousands
Of lives ruined.

LJP

BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE:PHILOSOPHY (sort of)

“A human being is nothing but a story with skin around it.”
          Fred Allen

Quoted in Writing Changes Everything , edited 
by Deborah Brodie (New York: St. Martin’s Press, 1997)
**

IDEAS OF ENDANGERMENT

“It’s too much, this being alive. Too heavy , too
uncertain, too chronically cataclysmic, too bellicose, 
too unwell, too freighted with a possibility of the 
perception of error. The word of the last few years –
in American activist and academic circles anyway – 
has been ‘precarity.’ Which gets at ideas of endangerment, neglect, contingency, risk. Basically, we’re worried. 
And: we’re worried you’re not worried enough. Like I said:
 it’s too much.”

Wesley Morris. “Beyonce’ Is, of Course, In Control” 
in The New York Times (August 1, 2022)
**

ON FRIENDSHIP

“ There are two categories of friendship: those 
in which people are enlivened by each other and 
those in which people must be enlivened to be with 
each other. In the first category one clears 
the decks to be together. In the second one looks 
for an empty space in the schedule.”

Vivian Gornick.  Approaching Eye Level (Boston:
Beacon Press, 1996)

**

THE STRAIGHT FORWARD STARE

“Flaubert said at one point that it’s only by looking
 down at the black pit at our feet, that we can remain 
calm (i.e. you’re more likely to panic if you don’t 
look at it, and the only way to look at it is to look 
at it with  a straight forward stare.”

Julian Barnes

  from Conversations With Julian Barnes, edited by Vanessa Guignery and Ryan Roberts (University Press of Mississippi, 2009)

**

 on Famine, Affluence, and Morality by Peter Singer

“Singer, prompted by widespread and credible hunger 
in what’s now Bangladesh, proposed a simple thought 
experiment : if you stroll by a child drowning in 
a shallow pond, presumably  you don’t worry too 
much about soiling your clothes before you wade 
in to help; given the irrelevance of the child’s 
location – in an actual pond nearby or in a 
metaphorical pond six thousand miles away—devoting 
resources  to superfluous goods is tantamount to
allowing a child to drown for the sake of a 
dry cleaner’s bill.

Gideon Lewis-Kraut. “Do Better” in The New Yorker
(August 15, 2022)

**
ESCAPE FROM DOUBT

“To some people return to religion is the answer, 
not as an act of faith but in order to escape an 
intolerable doubt but in search of security. The 
student of the contemporary scene who is not concerned 
with the church but with man’s soul considers this 
step another sympton of the failure of nerve.”

Erich Fromm. Psychoanalysis and Religion (New Haven:
Yale University Press. 1958)
***

WHAT IS CORRECT THINKING?

“What is correct thinking? It is to make our little
interior model of the outside world as exact as possible.
If the laws of our microcosm resemble fairly closely 
those of macrocosm, if our map represents with relative precision the country though which we must travel, 
there is some chance that our actions may be 
adjusted to our needs, our desires, or our fears.”

Andre Maurois. The Art of Living (New York: 
Harpers Brothers, 1959)
**
THE PARALLEL WORLD WHERE WE REALLY LIVE 

“Man lives in the real world; but there’s also 
a parallel world: a paper one, a bureaucratic one. 
So the passport is the person’s double in the
 parallel world.’ The comment comes from a Russian 
woman in her thirties interviewed as part of a study 
in St. Petersburg in 2008. She might have been 
channeling the philosopher Ron Harre’ , who 
called these bureaucratic doubles ‘file-selves.’”

Sheila Fitzpatrick. “Diary” in  London Review 
of Books (22 September 2022)
**

ESSENCE OF READING POETRY

Socrates contends
The essence of knowing
Is not knowing.

Since that is true,
Then the essence
Of reading this short verse

Is not reading this verse.

LJP

BITS & PIECES OF A MISPLACED LIFE: POETS & POETRY #3

“There are no uninteresting people in the world,
says Yevtushenko in one of his best lyrics; everyone
carries around with him his first snow and his first
kiss it is not people who die but worlds.”

Edward Thomas. London Magazine (November 1967)
**

ON BRAZIL’S FAMOUS POET
CARLOS DRUMMOND de ANDRADE & CHARLIE CHAPLIN


“The figure of ‘Carlitos’ as Chaplin was known
in Brazil, offers perhaps the single key to
Drummond’s poetics: the consummate artist who
appears not to be an artist at all: the down-and-out
clown who manages to stumble along life’s tightrope,
forever nearly yet never quite falling off: ‘Carlos,
go on! Be gauche in life!” Drummond tells himself
in the opening line of his first book of poems,
self-effacingly entitled Some Poetry.”

Thomas Colchie. Travelling in the Family: Selected
Poems Carlos Drummond de Andrade
(New York:
Random House, 1986)
**
ON A FAMOUS NURSERY RHYME


“Here we go round the mulberry bush
The mulberry bush
The mulberry bush
Here we go round the mulberry bush
On a cold and frosty morning

Although this rhyme likely started out using Bramble Bush (mulberries actually grow on trees), historian R. S. Duncan suggests this version came about at Wakefield Prison in England. The facility has been home to an extremely recognizable mulberry tree for centuries, and the theory goes that Victorian female prisoners used to dance around it and made up the rhyme to keep their kids amused. (Back then, men, women, and children were often confined together.) The tree eventually died in 2017, but it was replaced with a cutting from the original.”

from INTERESTING FACTS website (OCTOBER 1, 2022)

**
“You campaign in poetry; you govern in prose.”
Mario Cuomo

**
CHARLES SIMIC AND HIERONYMUS BOSCH

“’It was the love of…irreverence , as much as anything
else, that started me in poetry,’ Simic has said, and
he learned from Hieronymus Bosh that ‘there’s no joy
like the one a truly outrageous image on the verge
of blasphemy gives’”:

An old man gave little Mary Magdalene
A broken piece of a mirror.
She hid in the church outhouse.
When she got thirsty she licked
The steam off the glass.

Adam Kirsch. The Modern Element (New York:
W.W. Norton & Company, 2008)

**

DELMORE SCHWARTZ & THE POET AS SEER


“One of Delmore’s characteristic stances was this
insistence on the poet as seer, a medium of truths
whose power lay in their independence from the
vicissitudes of common reality. His own aspiration
was to remain indifferent to the merely visible,
choosing like Joyce’s Dedalus, to comprehend life
‘purified in and reprojected from the human imagination.”

James Atlas. Delmore Schwartz: The Life of an
American Poet
(New York: Farrar Straus Giroux, 1977)


ABOUT COLLY CIBBER

"In his Book An Apology for the Life of Colley Cibber,
he not only defended himself against personal attacks
from such well-known figures as Johnson, Fielding, and
Pope, but also produced one of the most important and indispensable accounts of a vital period in English
theatrical history. Cibber accurately chronicles the
plays, playwrights, and actors of the day in unstinting
detail, affording theater lovers and historians an
incomparable glimpse of the beginnings of modern theater.
As an actor, manager, and playwright, Colley Cibber
was among the most influential members of the London theater in the 18th century.”

From https://allpoetry.com/Colley-Cibber. All poetry.com is an important and useful site for\all lovers of poetry. I highly
recommend that readers go to it.
**
ON COLLY CIBBER

Colly Cibber
Wrote lots of gibber-
ish & horror yet
Was named Poet Laureate.

LJP

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